How I pick my friends

When you are bound to live abroad most of your meaningful life, moving from one place to another you cannot have stable friends.

You meet new people every year and then either you or they live that country and you have to start all over again

Is it worth it?

To me it is indeed

Explained on

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QiE_EGmRfI8

Who is special?

Many people think they are special but they are not.

Everyone thinks to be special though, because they would like to be so, and sometimes this dichotomy between their lives and the ones they would like to have make them suffer or feel unsatisfied.

First become special and the you can demand a different sort of life!

Explained on

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8l_Uz9lP13Y

I don't like Converse at all

I really dislike converse shoes both for what they look like and for what they represent

I explain everything on

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=37oCdR0pejM

Considerations

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AnJ0xywLgMY&feature=channel_page

Berlin, ich vermisse dich schon jetzt

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Coming from Stockholm I could not be impressed by the average attractivness of the girls or by the way they dress (and in fact I was not), but my view on the city in general and on the girls in particular is more than positive.

Berlin is enormous and moving from one part of the city to another takes a long time despite the efficiency of the metro network, the city while not beautiful is very pretty, but what is really nice is the Positive Energy you find anywhere.

The girls seem to be very social, even the most beautiful.

In conclusion, 3 days are nothing for a city like Berlin, it takes at least 10.

I have even had the perception that if I knew German (unfortunately I interrupted the studies about it last year, preferring to go for Spanish, and knowing Swedish does not help in almost anything in learning this very difficult language) I would move there, because it seems to me that the City and I would connect very well.

Being someting special

Globalization can be defined as the abstraction of space.

Although its effects are smaller than what many people consider, they are certainly higher than what those who are convinced of immutability of the Countries’ features believe.

What is important today is who you are more than where you are.

In other words if someone is special this thing is translated into every corner of the world.
Once upon a time it was enough to exist and to be in a certain place to enjoy a life of some kind.

Today it takes more.

Today you must be something more, something special.

Because nowadays it’s more important who you are than where you are

I prefer coffee shops to nightclubs

It seems strange but I prefer coffee shops to nightclubs.

I like dancing, especially rock & roll. But even more I like to know new people, people who normally I wouldn’t meet, so i am not talking about friends of friends or work colleagues; those people cannot be met in the discos, or we can say that it’s possible to meet them there but in that context you cannot develop a new knowledge.
In a different context, where people don’t need to play roles or be drunk it’s easier to notice interesting personality

So I am very fond of coffee shops!

Scandinavian Girls

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I never said that German girls are more attractive than Swedish girls. I just said the communication between Italian guys and German girls is easier because Germans are 100% European.

The Swedes are a different type: introverted and shy and have difficulty in communication. Their messages of joy or disgust are not easily readable by a non-expert of the Swedish world. They may look bored but they live inside your company and maybe they are in love. But you (not expert) do not understand until you are asked to accompany them to bed!

The Swedes live in an inner world that is not shown on the outside through the conventional signals known by us.

But in terms of beauty plus frankness they have no equal in the world.
(The Russians and Baltic can be more attractive but they are not so frank).
The Scandinavians seem cold to us because of the differences of non-verbal communication signals. It seems that they play hard to get but they are often introverted and cold with new acquaintances.

The Scandinavians become extroverted and uninhibited after drinking.


For the Scandinavian girl is almost irrelevant the status and economic position of the other people. It means that liars, parrots, payers and drivers have no chance with the Scandinavians, but great success with Italian and Russian girls.

The Scandinavian girl decides "who, where, when, how"

The Scandinavians are easy when they decide to be so and they are impossible when you try to pick them up.

The tragedy of not being artistic

It 's not that every person who is not artistic is necessarily boring

The problem is that those who do not have or artistic veins expressed either by immersion in art or by artistic production in all its expressions tend to be simple-minded people unable to channel strong emotions: first of all because they don’t have them, second of all because they cannot express them.

But don’t be afraid: only a few people have these characteristics.

That’s why those whom we like are attracted to them

Emotions: what we are alive for

What makes us feel alive? What gives us a real reason to do something?

Emotions

People can have a good job, a decent life and be not satisfied. Why is that? They don’t feel strong emotions.

Certain people are not structured to have these emotions, others are just too afraid

What is worse?

It’s hard to say.

Some people will never be able to make other people feel special emotions; someone suffers for that, others will never even notice that.

Obviously the best situation is to be the one who makes others feel those feelings; these people are so few, they are so naturally talented, that’s why we look for them and most of us would exchange our a-few-year-long and secure relationship for a few days with those people.

Because emotions make us feel alive, not anything else